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Singleness at 50+: from the crisis to a golden opportunity to start again
Learn to live with yourself. That will be the longest, most constant and essential relationship of your life, so it deserves attention and care. Don't fall for them to appearpersonas con tus mismos gustos, tu mismo presupuesto y tu mismo tiempo disponible. Esa coincidencia perfecta rara vez ocurre, y esperar por ella puede dejarte inmóvil.

Isabel C Ruiz
Sep 134 min read


Loving in Maturity: not everything, not anything
Hay un conflicto interno bastante común cuando llegamos a cierta etapa de la vida: creer que en el amor solo existen dos caminos.
O nos entregamos por completo, con plan, convivencia, acuerdos, futuro y calendario incluido.O nos cerramos en nombre de la paz, la independencia y esa tranquilidad que tanto nos costó construir.
Pero la vida real, casi siempre, ocurre en el medio.
Y ese medio merece ser explorado.

Isabel C Ruiz
Sep 93 min read


How much of what we choose do we really choose by ourselves?
Many decisions do not respond to a lack of personal strength, but to early learning in which approval was linked, directly or symbolically, to emotional security. Thus, the person learns to identify which version of himself receives recognition and begins to reproduce it until it becomes a habitual way of relating.
From this perspective, a central question arises:
How many of our decisions have been truly our own?

Isabel C Ruiz
Aug 94 min read


Your Life Purpose Has No Expiration Date
The purpose of life is not a destination, but a journey. A journey that changes and evolves as we change and evolve. Don't be afraid to explore, experiment, make mistakes and start over. Life is a wonderful adventure and each stage has its own charm!

Isabel C Ruiz
Jul 293 min read


What are you waiting for to get closer to what you want?
What are you waiting to know, live; that you will only be able to discover when you dare to take the first step?

Isabel C Ruiz
Jul 262 min read


🦋 The Weight of An Inheritance That We Do Not Choose
To be your priority again

Isabel C Ruiz
Jul 195 min read


Living in your own shelter:
That tree represents the pillars that we considered immovable - our certainties, the structuresfamiliares o profesionales que construimos, y la identidad que nos pusimos durante años. Cuando el ritmo del entorno nos empuja a estar siempre expuestos, atendiendo las transiciones de otros o sosteniendo roles que ya cumplieron su ciclo , lo primero que descuidamos es el propio eje.

Isabel C Ruiz
Jun 283 min read


The Second Half of Life: An opportunity to reinvent yourself
Inner freedom is born when we stop defining ourselves by our losses or limitations and begin to recognize everything we can still offer. Because as long as there is the possibility of loving, creating, learning or serving, there will always be reasons to continue building a meaningful life.

Isabel C Ruiz
Jun 35 min read


Sharing Time Is Not the Same as Sharing a Destination: Relationships After 50+
Throughout life, if we look back honestly, we will discover that there are few truly meaningful relationships. I mean those connections that not only generate companionship or excitement, but construction. Links where two people move towards something broader than the simple fact of being together

Isabel C Ruiz
May 304 min read


"Between Us:Its not about winning, its about playing well"
A decision to keep moving forward, even if it is only one step at a time.

Isabel C Ruiz
May 304 min read


What is the experience was the engine and not the break?
What is the experience was the engine and not the break?

Isabel C Ruiz
May 302 min read


The Mentor of Life: Strategy and Purpose After your 50´s
The Mentor of Life: Strategy and Purpose After your 50´s

Isabel C Ruiz
May 302 min read


Understanding The challenges of being in your 50´s
Understanding The challenges of being in your 50´s

Isabel C Ruiz
May 303 min read


Living in First Person
Living in First Person

Isabel C Ruiz
May 303 min read


Love after 55: ¿Real connection or ¨treat¨ for Sunday's?
Love after 55 ¿Real conection or ¨treat¨for sundays?

Isabel C Ruiz
May 303 min read
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